I’m Not Sexy, So What?

September 02, 2013 10:05 PM

Often times, I think that life is being so unfair. Well, yeah, technically, it’s not really fair. Why some people are fortunate? Why most are not? Why there are poor and rich? Why there are ugly and beautiful? Why measurements and weights are an issue to everyone?

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I’m actually one of those people who frequently ask why life is not fair, especially when it comes to physical appearance. Nah! I’m confident that I’m not ugly, but I’m not also beautiful compared to others. Good thing that my mother tells me I’m pretty, at least there’s a little encouragement on my part. Come to think of it. Isn’t it nice if all of us have an equal blessing? That would be a great idea, isn’t it? But those are just a wild dream. We have to deal in our differences and accept what God gave to us.

But wait, is being beautiful and sexy are really a requirement?

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Physical appearance is just an outer layer of our personality. Most of us deceive in what a person looks a like without realizing the real beauty is inside the person’s heart. Just like in taking a body measurements. Sure we all wants to be physical fit. We love to dress up in different types and sizes of clothes, to walk with full confidence in a crowd, to be adored and be love. But not all of us are given that kind of opportunity.

Jim Morrison, an America singer-song writer and poet thought that fat was beautiful. He describes that being fat made him feel a giant, powerful mammal. His views on eating and body image are quite refreshing. That obsession with size and weight is tricky.

Is being fat has really an advantage? Here’s my list.

Advantages of Being Fat

• Huggable –the good thing about hugging a fat or chubby person is that, when you hug them, you really HUG them big. You’ll experience the floppy and comfortable feeling that will keep you on coming back for more.

• People don’t expect you to be athletic –when you’re P.E teacher asks you to do some exercise demos for your class, they won’t expect you to perfect it. In another thing, maybe it can be your excuse to not be their pet.

• You won’t make negative comments to others –surely, when ask, you won’t give bad comments against others because you exactly feel what they might feel when tell them those.

• You will always be cautious to what will you do –some people really act so clumsy that end up to inappropriate scenarios. But when you’re larger or heavier than others, you’ll always be aware of what you act or speak, since you think that you catch more attention than slim persons, because technically, you’re visually larger than them. That’s not bad idea ayt?

• You can eat what you want –that’s the real spirit. You can choose whatever you like. You will not be like the other people who are so conscious on what they eat, that they could actually bring a calculator so that they can compute each carbs they take in.

• Nanay will be very happy –seriously, when you thought a lot about your diet plan, you might skip the dinner and forgot that you’re mother exert a lot of time and effort to prepare a meal. Making her happy is actually great.

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Despite of the negative comments about being fat and the health risk, the good side should be considered. Being fat is not a crime. It is just an exterior part of you. The real you are beneath of those fats around your belly. The real you are inside your heart and soul. You are beautiful no matter what the world says about you. You could be attractive and sexy thru your attitudes and points of view in life. We all know that being fit is health. But being fat is also an opportunity to test those people to love you aside from your appearance. You’re God’s greatest creature. You are beautiful, just be you.